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Girlysprite
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mshcherbatskaya, I will ever be thankful for the new word you taught me: Porn-yodeling.

Mobius, Jallil; stop making out here :p

On the 'become opposite sex for a day'; There is actually a book of a woman that lived like a guy for a while (very good makeup and props) and wrote a book on the experiences. It's really enlightening. If someone is interested, I can look up the title. As for myself, I would just hang out with other guys, see how that is like.

Saskwach
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mshcherbatskaya:
when I was walking around in the black leather jacket (it was the early 90's, OK? Biker jackets were cool, then)

Are you kidding? Those things are almost my epitome of cool and sexy no matter which gender wears them.

Hey Joe
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girth or length?

The Reverend
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Hey Joe:
girth or length?

Dude, you had to bring it up. Next up, the dick measuring contest, shortly followed by the "notches on the bedpost game."
EDIT: No pun intended.

The_root_of_all_evil
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The Reverend:

Hey Joe:
girth or length?

Dude, you had to bring it up. Next up, the dick measuring contest, shortly followed by the "notches on the bedpost game."
EDIT: No pun intended.

Surely the next one would be depth vs. width?

I am so going to hell.

MidgetWannabe
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BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

Follow-up question: From your untainted-by-a-Y-gene perspectives, why would a guy answer a question asked on a 'guys ask girls questions' thread? Confusion? Deep-seated insecurity? Aspirations of grandeur?(ok, I'm pandering now)

Also: what about viciously funny sarcasm?

Guys outnumber girls on this board by a large quantity. If some males weren't putting their two cents in, then this discussion would've died very quickly. Not to mention, they like to argue. And I like that. The guys I've talked to on here question me and I love it, lol. I'd really hate it if I gave advice and a guy went "Oh okay, thanks Your Highness," instead of making me explain.

Oh okay, thanks Your Highness

BlazeTheVampire
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MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

Follow-up question: From your untainted-by-a-Y-gene perspectives, why would a guy answer a question asked on a 'guys ask girls questions' thread? Confusion? Deep-seated insecurity? Aspirations of grandeur?(ok, I'm pandering now)

Also: what about viciously funny sarcasm?

Guys outnumber girls on this board by a large quantity. If some males weren't putting their two cents in, then this discussion would've died very quickly. Not to mention, they like to argue. And I like that. The guys I've talked to on here question me and I love it, lol. I'd really hate it if I gave advice and a guy went "Oh okay, thanks Your Highness," instead of making me explain.

Oh okay, thanks Your Highness

... you know, I just don't even have anything to say to that. I don't know you so I can't tell if that was meant to be funny or if it was meant to mock me in a stinging sort of way.

MidgetWannabe
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BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

Follow-up question: From your untainted-by-a-Y-gene perspectives, why would a guy answer a question asked on a 'guys ask girls questions' thread? Confusion? Deep-seated insecurity? Aspirations of grandeur?(ok, I'm pandering now)

Also: what about viciously funny sarcasm?

Guys outnumber girls on this board by a large quantity. If some males weren't putting their two cents in, then this discussion would've died very quickly. Not to mention, they like to argue. And I like that. The guys I've talked to on here question me and I love it, lol. I'd really hate it if I gave advice and a guy went "Oh okay, thanks Your Highness," instead of making me explain.

Oh okay, thanks Your Highness

... you know, I just don't even have anything to say to that. I don't know you so I can't tell if that was meant to be funny or if it was meant to mock me in a stinging sort of way.

Kindly explain yourself.

BlazeTheVampire
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MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

Follow-up question: From your untainted-by-a-Y-gene perspectives, why would a guy answer a question asked on a 'guys ask girls questions' thread? Confusion? Deep-seated insecurity? Aspirations of grandeur?(ok, I'm pandering now)

Also: what about viciously funny sarcasm?

Guys outnumber girls on this board by a large quantity. If some males weren't putting their two cents in, then this discussion would've died very quickly. Not to mention, they like to argue. And I like that. The guys I've talked to on here question me and I love it, lol. I'd really hate it if I gave advice and a guy went "Oh okay, thanks Your Highness," instead of making me explain.

Oh okay, thanks Your Highness

... you know, I just don't even have anything to say to that. I don't know you so I can't tell if that was meant to be funny or if it was meant to mock me in a stinging sort of way.

Kindly explain yourself.

Explain myself how, exactly?

MidgetWannabe
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BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

BlazeTheVampire:

MidgetWannabe:

Follow-up question: From your untainted-by-a-Y-gene perspectives, why would a guy answer a question asked on a 'guys ask girls questions' thread? Confusion? Deep-seated insecurity? Aspirations of grandeur?(ok, I'm pandering now)

Also: what about viciously funny sarcasm?

Guys outnumber girls on this board by a large quantity. If some males weren't putting their two cents in, then this discussion would've died very quickly. Not to mention, they like to argue. And I like that. The guys I've talked to on here question me and I love it, lol. I'd really hate it if I gave advice and a guy went "Oh okay, thanks Your Highness," instead of making me explain.

Oh okay, thanks Your Highness

... you know, I just don't even have anything to say to that. I don't know you so I can't tell if that was meant to be funny or if it was meant to mock me in a stinging sort of way.

Kindly explain yourself.

Explain myself how, exactly?

I dunno, I like to argue :(

Gahars
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Do girls enjoy gay porn, like guys enjoy lesbian porn?

ayoama
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The_root_of_all_evil:

Well, the reverse question could be answered quite easily, but I'm quite surprised already. Both responses have been about how they make you feel...

Now you've made me curious: what were you expecting to read in those answers?

Larmo:
I have a fashion question for other girls, why is it now acceptable to go outside in you night cloths and slippers and do something public as shopping for groceries. I work on a register and see it daily, why is it in to look like you rolled out of bed, it's up there with HUGE sunglasses.

I didn't know this had become a trend, but I wish could go to the nearby grocery store without having to dress up where I live...

marvinn:
I've always been confused by the whole loud moaning sex thing. Is there a reason for it? Is it just an involuntary reaction to something good? or is it just a way of porn makers to sell their material.

Having said that girls in porn scream waaay too much, and sound fake too, moaning really is an involuntary reaction to pleasure for many girls. It doesn't necessarily mean it's their only response: for me, for example, moaning is something that comes naturally only if I'm in a certain mood. I can range from taking deep breaths to needing to grope my boyfriend in a very un-girlish manner ^^, so, moaning it's not exactly related to performance in my case.

ayoama
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Gahars:
Do girls enjoy gay porn, like guys enjoy lesbian porn?

Have you ever heard of shonen-ai, yaoi, slash, boy's love etc etc?

TJ rock 101
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ayoama:

Gahars:
Do girls enjoy gay porn, like guys enjoy lesbian porn?

Have you ever heard of shonen-ai, yaoi, slash, boy's love etc etc?

dear god....
well even though i think an answer to that would be interesting i don't really approve of that one lol

Darth Mobius
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ayoama:

Gahars:
Do girls enjoy gay porn, like guys enjoy lesbian porn?

Have you ever heard of shonen-ai, yaoi, slash, boy's love etc etc?

No. And I for one do not care for Lesbian Porn... I like the penetration... Anyway...

Back on topic...

josh797
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wow this thread is so far gone its subject is now porn? umm woowwwwwww

so i guess my question is whether girls have a problem with the feminist movement and whether they think that it sright or wrong

The_root_of_all_evil
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ayoama:

The_root_of_all_evil:

Well, the reverse question could be answered quite easily, but I'm quite surprised already. Both responses have been about how they make you feel...

Now you've made me curious: what were you expecting to read in those answers?

I don't really know. From a male perspective, it's sort of tough to understand what a girl would see in a guy; because you're obviously not as taken by raw appearance as we are, and not by raw force of will/bank account/humour as we expect you to be.

I mean, Sean Connery being one of the sexiest men alive (according to women)? WTF?

The_root_of_all_evil
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josh797:

so i guess my question is whether girls have a problem with the feminist movement and whether they think that it sright or wrong

I think you'd have to devolve that into the three waves of feminism that have already gone past.

rayxofxsunshine
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josh797:
so i guess my question is whether girls have a problem with the feminist movement and whether they think that it sright or wrong

I don't know if I speak for everyone...okay, I take that back. I *know* I don't speak for anyone but myself, but I personally think that feminists can suck my left nut. If I had one.

I'm a girl, I'm all for equality or what have you, but "the power of the almighty uterus?" Give me a break.

edit: however, the movement, while at times may have had some pretty ridiculous ideas, has brought about alot of good things for women that I'm thankful for.

ForestFox
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I've got one for the ladies here. Why can't women ask out men?

Thank you,

-Fox

josh797
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ForestFox:
I've got one for the ladies here. Why can't women ask out men?

Thank you,

-Fox

QFT

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redstar alpha:

cant be arsed to read all nine pages so here are mine

-are all woman aware they hold the keys to EVERYTHING! i am not kiding, if a woman wants me to do some thing i am probaly going to do it (thats why i am know as the "just good friends guy")
-can you ever say the right thing about a womans clothes?
-is a beard a turn on?
-would swinging through a womans window in just a loin cloth win her heart (heres hoping yes)

No, sadly, there are actually a lot of women out there who aren't confident enough in themselves to know they have the power to bring a man to his knees, lol. But honestly, grow a set. I have no respect for men who will do everything a woman asks just in the hopes of getting laid or sleeping on the couch instead of with them. Pink shirts are even worse. I actually heard a girl say to her boyfriend that if he loved her, he'd wear a pink shirt. And the fucker bought it! Bah. But, that's just me.

A woman's clothes... it depends on A) how well you know her and B) the occasion. A genuine "you look nice" when she's dressed up is always a good way to go.

Personally, I hate facial hair. But I know women who think it's rugged and sexy, so that's all a matter of personal preference.

I'm pretty sure that if a man wearing a loincloth swung through my window, I'd have my knife through him before he could land. Most girls would settle for calling the cops.[/quote]

i didnt mean to make it sound like i would only help a ladie in the hope of getting laid, i just meant that i am to nice and to nervous

BlazeTheVampire
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redstar alpha:

redstar alpha:

cant be arsed to read all nine pages so here are mine

-are all woman aware they hold the keys to EVERYTHING! i am not kiding, if a woman wants me to do some thing i am probaly going to do it (thats why i am know as the "just good friends guy")
-can you ever say the right thing about a womans clothes?
-is a beard a turn on?
-would swinging through a womans window in just a loin cloth win her heart (heres hoping yes)

No, sadly, there are actually a lot of women out there who aren't confident enough in themselves to know they have the power to bring a man to his knees, lol. But honestly, grow a set. I have no respect for men who will do everything a woman asks just in the hopes of getting laid or sleeping on the couch instead of with them. Pink shirts are even worse. I actually heard a girl say to her boyfriend that if he loved her, he'd wear a pink shirt. And the fucker bought it! Bah. But, that's just me.

A woman's clothes... it depends on A) how well you know her and B) the occasion. A genuine "you look nice" when she's dressed up is always a good way to go.

Personally, I hate facial hair. But I know women who think it's rugged and sexy, so that's all a matter of personal preference.

I'm pretty sure that if a man wearing a loincloth swung through my window, I'd have my knife through him before he could land. Most girls would settle for calling the cops.

i didnt mean to make it sound like i would only help a ladie in the hope of getting laid, i just meant that i am to nice and to nervous[/quote]

I didn't take the question with any amount of seriousness, really, lol. And it didn't make me think it was a reflection of your personality or anything, I promise.

Naomi
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Best answer I've gotten to "How do I look?" is "how does it make you feel?" this is probably the best answer because it subtly gauges what i think of the outfit and whether i just want you to agree that i look nice and its great also because it makes you look like you've given your answer some thought and are genuinely interested.

thebunnyofdeath
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Yes, we love feminism. Most women, and men, don't actually understand what feminism is. But we all love it.

First wave feminism is equality between men and women, neither sex is better but each have their strengths and weaknesses. It is about a woman having the choice to be a president, CEO or a housewife. It is not saying one is better than the other, just that women should have the option to pursue anything that men can.

We still have a lot of social inequality by the way, I think it's disgusting that women are told that their worth depends on their hotness factor.
I do believe though that there are women who take feminism too far. In doing so they focus on overpowering men, not just being their equals and tend to lose their own feminine qualities (which are wonderful!) in the process.

Oh, and I think a small amount of facial hair is quite sexy. A three day growth kind of thing. It's when men start to style it that it gets ridiculous.

marvinn
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This thread needs to cut out the nonsense and spam, seriously.

My question is this. More of a pet-hate really.

I often see Women with long hair, who while talking, will flick their hair back behind their ears constantly while talking. My question is, if its really that annoying why not cut those strands off, or tie it back?

thebunnyofdeath
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We wear long hair out for the same reason we wear tiny dresses on freezing nights & shoes that turn our feet into misshapen deformities. For many women it's more important to look good than to be practical or comfortable.

Oh and Marvinn, women often play with or flick their hair as a form of flirting. Perhaps someone likes you.

Naomi
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i have really long hair, i love it and it looks great down, im sorry that it bothers you. seriously though some girls do it as nervous habit, also stupid womans magazines have tried to convince us that you find this somehow alluring but probably the most common reason is that yes it is annoying but we love our hair anyway.

marvinn
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Ahh I didn't think for a moment that it might be a nervous thing. There ya go. Learned something!

BlazeTheVampire
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Feminism? I think in the current society, it's really not needed and therefore annoying an nagging. You can't say anything nowadays without pissing off some group; be it feminists, Asians, African-Americans, Christians, what-the-hell-ever. But feminists seem to be an ever-present pain, lol. On a funny note, the College Republicans at my University held an "Anti-Feminist Bake Sale" and that cracked me up. I wasn't there Spring of 07 but I guess that year they held "Catch an Illegal Immigrant Day" too. I can't wait for next year's controversy.

I have long hair (it goes a little below my bra strap in the back) but I also have face-framing bangs, so I don't do the tucking thing because if my bangs are trimmed right, it's a fruitless effort. But girls are taught through body language in movies and such that fiddling with their hair is a flirty thing, so I agree with whoever said it up there^^^ (it's late here and I'm lazy) that maybe someone likes you, lol. I mean I know it's a hard concept to grasp, but... j/k. I wear my hair down because it absolutely freaks me out when I can feel air on the back of my neck. Seriously. When my hair does get styled somehow, I wear a scarf. A quirk of mine I suppose.

Girlysprite
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Feminism is needed, but not the 'burn a bra, overthrow males and jump on barricades' feminism. Today women still get paid less for the same jobs as men, there are less women on the top. Another example; In the netherlands it will acceptable to fire a woman instead of a man because 'the man has to earn money for his family' till the eighties. I know that here, fathers get as much as one or two days off when a child of them is born, a woman six weeks. This pushes a woman into the child care role, and the man into the job role. And so on... Serious feminism, with a political agenda are less likely to be noticed, because they are not acting as 'stupid'.

As for girls frolicking with their hairs; Guys seem to puff up their chest a bit when talking with a girl. It's part of behavior that they don't notice themselves, 'programmed' to allure. When a girl is alone, her hair is often fine. Put her with a guy in a room and she'll start frolicking with it, and she doesn't even notice. (I actually read on a scientific experiment about this)

Girls don't ask guys out because they don't have to ;) Though it can be the other way around, but it takes some dare. I was the one to 'drop on my knee' for my boyfriend for example :)

Darth Empyrean
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ForestFox:
I've got one for the ladies here. Why can't women ask out men?

Thank you,

-Fox

Simple most of the time either we are to lazy, or we want to see just what a guy is willing to do. ^_^

rayxofxsunshine
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ForestFox:
I've got one for the ladies here. Why can't women ask out men?

Thank you,

-Fox

I do!! :P

But, on a serious note...I think it boils down to alot of nervousness and ideals. Most women want fairy tales, and usually that's the guy being the dominating force and the girl just submitting to the romance. I think most girls just *expect* the guy to ask them out, and when they don't, they take it as a sign of un-interest, and then immediately get defensively stubborn about not asking HIM out. Something like that.

Kumomaru
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Is it normal for a girl you've never met to get way too close of her own will?

rayxofxsunshine
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