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TriGGeR_HaPPy
Paperboy
Posts: 35
Joined: 22 May 2008

Poyer:
YOU ARE ALL PRETENTIOUS SELF-RIGHTEOUS DUCHEBAGS!

id like to apologize if you felt attacked by the capitalization and aggressive exclamation point.

but really, you are.

you cant dismiss a person with a one-word silly quirk, unless its some kind of laugh induced vomiting... actually, ill make that my answer.

All i was saying is that yes, i know Full Well there is (usually) a Lot More to people then what you can see on the outside...

I'm just saying you can dress comfy And warm AND look good. It IS Possible.

Just saying that (the girls i was talking about), try dressing warm for once... i'm sure it'll feel a Lot better...

Copter400
Gone Gonzo
Posts: 2099
Joined: 14 Sep 2007

I don't have such a big problem with a tattoos. Do with thy body what thou wishes, just don't expect me to do it. With the right sort of tattoo, it can actually be quite attractive. Think Irish lasses with celtic crosses on their shoulders.

A Fight Club quote would be suitable: "I just don't want to die without any scars. I see those cars fresh off the production line that are kept pristine and never driven by their owners; I think, what a waste."

DarkHyth
Copy Clerk
Posts: 74
Joined: 10 Apr 2008

Smoking. Instant no-no.

No offense to anyone who smokes, but I think its suicidal and inconsiderate of others (non-smokers).

Vilhelm
Paperboy
Posts: 11
Joined: 14 Aug 2008

Rename this to, "What do you think about women with tattoos?" It'd be more fitting.

Johnn Johnston
Gone Gonzo
Posts: 2913
Joined: 4 May 2008

Vilhelm:
Rename this to, "What do you think about women with tattoos?" It'd be more fitting.

For me, the quick answer would be: "Sometimes hot, often not."

slowpoke219
Copy Clerk
Posts: 100
Joined: 30 Jun 2008

Smoking is a deal breaker. Smokers taste bad. A girl with man-hands is also a big turnoff. And I know this is shallow and I apologize in advance to the ladies of the board, but small boobies are also a No-Go. What can I say, I likes da boobies.

Hey Joe
Gone Gonzo
Posts: 1461
Joined: 23 Dec 2007

1. Being a man

2. Being a complete and utter dumbass

3. Being a man

Zaharias
Paperboy
Posts: 30
Joined: 25 Jun 2008

If the person is immature and can't hold an intelligent conversation with me it tends to bug me...a lot. If I try to have a serious conversation I hate if they start laughing or brush it off like it means nothing as well.

On another note I find piercings severely unattractive but I like tattoos, as long as they aren't over the top or just plain awful tats. I also dislike if the person drinks a lot or even to the point where I would consider them an alcoholic, my ex was like this needing to go to the bar every weekend, sometimes more then once a week. To go along with that is smoking and/or drug use. Smoking is ok but as long as they don't smoke too much. I don't mind if they smoke 1-2 a day per say, but if they smoke somewhere up to say a pack or more a day, there's something wrong there. Drug use is just a definite no. While I myself on the extremely rare occasion will smoke some weed to relax I don't make a habit of it.

SimuLord
Infamous Scribbler
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Joined: 20 Aug 2008

Cutlesnap:
If she's dumb. I fucking hate dumb people.

Also, what's wrong with chick with tattoo's? I think they're hot.

I find dumb chicks to be useful...if I'm feeling particularly malicious it never hurts to have a booty call around. Wouldn't get serious with one though.

As for tattoos, different strokes for different folks. Some people like them, I'm not one of those people.

Altorin
Gone Gonzo
Posts: 2034
Joined: 16 May 2008

lol@booty call.

smoking.. I don't personally think Second Hand Smoke is nearly as dangerous as the left wing wackos would have you believe. I don't smoke, myself, and hence, I don't care for the taste of it in a kiss. But second hand smoke killing me is not on my

I'd still say it's a deal breaker though, but not automatically

Kraj
Copy Clerk
Posts: 100
Joined: 21 Jan 2008

If she's not what I'm attracted to. If she's not slim like me, smart like me, and fun like me, she's not :with: me.
To judge someone on appearance when it comes to a relationship as in dating, is no more wrong than to say "men are all about sex" and "women are all materialistic"
A relationship is no more than a job application, and if you don't fit the job, you just :don't: you can't be faulted for that. Its pitiful and pretentious to claim that judging someone for not being what your attracted to is wrong. When dealing with a corporate or political system? Yes, its wrong to discriminate. But when dealing with who you want to spend your life with and who you want in bed?
If you think its wrong to discriminate based on :anything: your a pretentious fool. We can only like what we like. We can only be turned off by what we are turned off by. Sure you might miss some hidden gems, but that's YOUR decision.

on the other hand, it probably hurts to want someone and have them spurn you just because of one quality, "in or outside" of your control. C'est la vie, c'est trop depressive, et si si mal... mais c'est la vie.

spiggy
Paperboy
Posts: 27
Joined: 18 Feb 2008

Altorin:
lol@booty call.

smoking.. I don't personally think Second Hand Smoke is nearly as dangerous as the left wing wackos would have you believe. I don't smoke, myself, and hence, I don't care for the taste of it in a kiss. But second hand smoke killing me is not on my

I'd still say it's a deal breaker though, but not automatically

Whether or not second hand smoke will kill you, it still smells nasty and is impossible to get out of clothing or furniture. You can smoke away from me, but that still won't change the fact that you stink.

What turns me off? Excessive tattoos, piercings, girls with hairstyles like mohawks. Basically, my friend Kimmy. She's a terrific person, but I'm not attracted to her in the least.

Evilbunny
Infamous Scribbler
Posts: 589
Joined: 23 Feb 2008

SimuLord:

Ultrajoe:

jim_doki:
judgmentalism, paricularly on physical features

you see what i did there?

I did, I second it.

Sure, i think men have a right to prefer the more attractive women (thats why they are attractive)

But a tattoo and and it's an automatic out? man... poor form.

If she's got a tat, I'm going to fixate on it. It's going to draw my attention.

Furthermore it says a lot about the person who decides to get a tattoo in the first place. It speaks volumes about their desire to broadcast to the world, whether the world cares to receive the broadcast or not, and is very inherently narcissistic.

I'm also a big believer in the idea of "the body is a temple, and you don't spray graffiti on a temple." I think the Jews got it right in Leviticus 19:28.

Being extremely introverted myself I have no patience for conspicuous displays of anything.

There are good reasons to get a tatoo. A friend of mine got one in memoriam to her best friend who was killed in a car crash. I got one after I finished my chemotherapy to remind myself that I am capable of surviving anything life throws at me. I think it is small minded of you to assume people only get tatoos because they are narcissistic. Their tatoos could be just for them. But, maybe you're right. Maybe God won't like what I did to my body. But I'm fine with that since I'm not too happy with what he did to it either.

The Kind Cannibal
Beat Writer
Posts: 192
Joined: 19 Aug 2008

Nothing much, I've been called shallow though, and the polar oppisite "You'd screw anything that walked upright wouldn't you?"

TheGhostOfSin
Gone Gonzo
Posts: 1175
Joined: 21 May 2008

Caimekaze:
Turn off?
Powerful sex drive,

How is that in anyway bad?

There seems to be a lot of shallow and obnoxious people here.
Im assuming most of you are trying to reasure yourselves and others that the reason you never get any dates is because no-one is perfect enough for you, and for those of you that do get dates and are still like this then you're just dicks.

Not a Spy
Muckraker
Posts: 228
Joined: 11 Aug 2008

Kraj:
If she's not what I'm attracted to. If she's not slim like me, smart like me, and fun like me, she's not :with: me.
To judge someone on appearance when it comes to a relationship as in dating, is no more wrong than to say "men are all about sex" and "women are all materialistic"
A relationship is no more than a job application, and if you don't fit the job, you just :don't: you can't be faulted for that. Its pitiful and pretentious to claim that judging someone for not being what your attracted to is wrong. When dealing with a corporate or political system? Yes, its wrong to discriminate. But when dealing with who you want to spend your life with and who you want in bed?
If you think its wrong to discriminate based on :anything: your a pretentious fool. We can only like what we like. We can only be turned off by what we are turned off by. Sure you might miss some hidden gems, but that's YOUR decision.

on the other hand, it probably hurts to want someone and have them spurn you just because of one quality, "in or outside" of your control. C'est la vie, c'est trop depressive, et si si mal... mais c'est la vie.

He speaks the TRUTH! saying no to someone who just isn't attractive to you isn't a bad type of discrimination, If we lived by that logic you should just go out with everyone who has displayed any interest in you ever. If you dont discriminate a bit on who you date all your dates will suck or never turn into anything meaningfull.

Spleeni
Press Junketeer
Posts: 427
Joined: 5 Jul 2008

Mmm...I'd have to say it's a three way tie between the following:

Smoking (I have Asthma. Bitch, no)
Body mods (Yuck)
Bitches (Chicks who left their sweet button off, and are, well, bitches.)

X3heartless
Beat Writer
Posts: 155
Joined: 29 Jul 2008

If she quiffs.That is fucking nasty,or if she spits,smell,if she wont look me in the eye,is to submissive,wont think for herself,if shes hairy,and if she's better than me at cs:s lol.

SimuLord
Infamous Scribbler
Posts: 683
Joined: 20 Aug 2008

X3heartless:
If she quiffs.That is fucking nasty,or if she spits,smell,if she wont look me in the eye,is to submissive,wont think for herself,if shes hairy,and if she's better than me at cs:s lol.

Too submissive? Dude, send her my way. I love girls like that.

As far as air escaping from places air ought not to escape from, I could tell you a story about an old girlfriend but it would be at least a yellow card if I did.

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