Motokemu: well, yes, you should wait until your brain is at adult development level before entering into what is an adult situation. Not sure where you live, but someone aged 17 is still considered a child in australia. Can't vote, can't legally sign a contract without a guardian, can't drink, etc etc.
Not trying to rain on your parade, but come back to me in a few years and tell me again how great it was to get married so young. I'm pretty sure you'll have all the regrets that everyone I've ever met who married young has.
Jaythulhu: Motokemu: well, yes, you should wait until your brain is at adult development level before entering into what is an adult situation. Not sure where you live, but someone aged 17 is still considered a child in australia. Can't vote, can't legally sign a contract without a guardian, can't drink, etc etc.
Not trying to rain on your parade, but come back to me in a few years and tell me again how great it was to get married so young. I'm pretty sure you'll have all the regrets that everyone I've ever met who married young has.
Whats your email? I'll be sure to send you an update in a few years and then we'll both see.
Not any more, had a few Girlfriends in the past, the most recent was a disaster.
Still haven't found the correct balance yet ('fun'/social/financial/not crazy), the last one was an exponential detriment to my income. Watch out for redheads, they're crazy. (Tho they do tend to have a higher 'fun' factor...)
Jaythulhu: Motokemu: well, yes, you should wait until your brain is at adult development level before entering into what is an adult situation. Not sure where you live, but someone aged 17 is still considered a child in australia. Can't vote, can't legally sign a contract without a guardian, can't drink, etc etc.
Not trying to rain on your parade, but come back to me in a few years and tell me again how great it was to get married so young. I'm pretty sure you'll have all the regrets that everyone I've ever met who married young has.
Whats your email? I'll be sure to send you an update in a few years and then we'll both see.
Oh, I just realized that I missed the most poignant example, my Brother.
He and his ex-wife dated for three years, had the most perfect relationship. They got married at age 19, and she ended up leaving him about 9 months later because she was tired of doing the same thing at home, alone, while he was off at basic training. She wanted to go out with her friends and party at night. Eventually you will realize that you missed out on all the wonderful things that being a carefree teenager grants. You or he will have a mid-life crisis and the divorce will devastate one of you, while the other buys a sportscar and goes out and has fun.
That is the most common reason for marital infidelities. And most couples never recover from an infidelity.
Jaythulhu: Motokemu: well, yes, you should wait until your brain is at adult development level before entering into what is an adult situation. Not sure where you live, but someone aged 17 is still considered a child in australia. Can't vote, can't legally sign a contract without a guardian, can't drink, etc etc.
Not trying to rain on your parade, but come back to me in a few years and tell me again how great it was to get married so young. I'm pretty sure you'll have all the regrets that everyone I've ever met who married young has.
Whats your email? I'll be sure to send you an update in a few years and then we'll both see.
Oh, I just realized that I missed the most poignant example, my Brother.
He and his ex-wife dated for three years, had the most perfect relationship. They got married at age 19, and she ended up leaving him about 9 months later because she was tired of doing the same thing at home, alone, while he was off at basic training. She wanted to go out with her friends and party at night. Eventually you will realize that you missed out on all the wonderful things that being a carefree teenager grants. You or he will have a mid-life crisis and the divorce will devastate one of you, while the other buys a sportscar and goes out and has fun.
That is the most common reason for marital infidelities. And most couples never recover from an infidelity.
well... lets see. my "friends" ditched me a long ass time ago so now im just careful w/who I am "friends" with. I did most of my partying already, my cousin took care of that end of the deal and left me w/a sour taste in my soul and to be honest I'd like to stay clear of the whole partying area and just hang out w/his friends and sit around playing Halo and having White Russians instead of getting drunk to the point where you end up in someone's bed naked and eh...
suffice to say you have a point, a VERY good point but your example just showed that they weren't sure, she wasn't ready for the responsibilty, the sacrifices you have to put in something so important.
To each their own opinion. But really... give me your email. I'll read you in 5 years :)
hey, I have had over 50 boyfriends, alot more if you count flings and hook-ups. I am only 15 too! I'm gonna keep count until I hit 21. If I can count high enough! Right now though, I have 1 pissed off ex and a bad ass boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 2 and a half months now. Yet I am still a virgin... ;D still living the dream. xoxo
Scarletmarine: hey, I have had over 50 boyfriends, alot more if you count flings and hook-ups. I am only 15 too! I'm gonna keep count until I hit 21. If I can count high enough! Right now though, I have 1 pissed off ex and a bad ass boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 2 and a half months now. Yet I am still a virgin... ;D still living the dream. xoxo
Hang on a second.
Considering your first boyfriend was when you were 13 (Because any younger would just be wrong), that means you must have had a different boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Is it just me, or is something wrong with this picture?
P.S. Like I said before, I've had 1 girlfriend. Right now, I'm single and loving it.
Happily married to my wife, who plays Horde on WoW and thanks to her MMORPG jones gives me plenty of personal space and free time to play my own games.
I had a girlfriend of two and half years at sixteen, sir.
DO WORK!
I only came here to find out why Cheeze was banned, but since no one else said it:
Damn it man, two and a half years is much too young to be dating a sixteen year old! Maybe a toddler or a kindergärtner, definitely nothing older. [/bad joke]
Kudos to the scary Jeff guy, best character ever. (And my wife says the cutest.)
foogan: been single 7 mounths and still nothing. It kinda sucks =(
I still think it's funny that people expect to be in a relationship with others. It almost strikes me as arrogant. Seven months without one, too? That's nothing. Come back in three or four years.
Scarletmarine: hey, I have had over 50 boyfriends, alot more if you count flings and hook-ups. I am only 15 too! I'm gonna keep count until I hit 21. If I can count high enough! Right now though, I have 1 pissed off ex and a bad ass boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 2 and a half months now. Yet I am still a virgin... ;D still living the dream. xoxo
Hang on a second.
Considering your first boyfriend was when you were 13 (Because any younger would just be wrong), that means you must have had a different boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Is it just me, or is something wrong with this picture?
I am surprised that you didn't call her on saying that she is a virgin AND has hook ups. I wanted to say something about lying sluts, but I was afraid of getting banned, so I just ignored her. But yes, how can someone be a virgin if they have hook-ups?
Scarletmarine: hey, I have had over 50 boyfriends, alot more if you count flings and hook-ups. I am only 15 too! I'm gonna keep count until I hit 21. If I can count high enough! Right now though, I have 1 pissed off ex and a bad ass boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 2 and a half months now. Yet I am still a virgin... ;D still living the dream. xoxo
Hang on a second.
Considering your first boyfriend was when you were 13 (Because any younger would just be wrong), that means you must have had a different boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Is it just me, or is something wrong with this picture?
I am surprised that you didn't call her on saying that she is a virgin AND has hook ups. I wanted to say something about lying sluts, but I was afraid of getting banned, so I just ignored her. But yes, how can someone be a virgin if they have hook-ups?
Hooking up when your a kid just means making out with random people.. No sex
I think your brain finally matures about age twenty-five (and immediately begins dying off, let me assure you.) But just because your brain isn't completely finished doesn't mean there's anything wrong with it. My IQ tested about 10% higher at 14 than at 47. So just because there may be a few connections that haven't yet been made is no reason to avoid relationships - you should just be very cautious because of lack of experience and raging hormones. I think the structural changes in your brain in your teen and young adult years are probably due to experience, not to your brain being not quite ready to use. Then, around age twenty-five your brain gets filled up and thus stops changing. After that, every time you learn something new you forget something old. It's called the balance of nature. (Only partly joking.)
EDIT: I did not know that, Zen. Thank you. Now I shall try hard to forget it.
Scarletmarine: hey, I have had over 50 boyfriends, alot more if you count flings and hook-ups. I am only 15 too! I'm gonna keep count until I hit 21. If I can count high enough! Right now though, I have 1 pissed off ex and a bad ass boyfriend who I have been dating for almost 2 and a half months now. Yet I am still a virgin... ;D still living the dream. xoxo
Hang on a second.
Considering your first boyfriend was when you were 13 (Because any younger would just be wrong), that means you must have had a different boyfriend every 2 weeks.
Is it just me, or is something wrong with this picture?
P.S. Like I said before, I've had 1 girlfriend. Right now, I'm single and loving it.
While I'm personally of the opinion that Scarletmarine is full of bullshit and is exaggerating/lying to get attention, I have met a few girls who do go boyfriend to boyfriend, week to week.
zhoomout: only 3 weeks then it will be 18 years of singleness for me (by the way I'm 17 at the mo, not some old man lol)!!!
I'm generally too shy to be able to ask anyone out. I can be a bit flirty but thats about it.
I second that...well I have 6 months till 18 but whatever. I am either too shy to say anything or I end making a fool out of myself. The whole you don't know what to say so you panic and say something stupid....that is me in a nutshell.
Ah that is better. So pretty much those poser gangsters that act all tough until you call them on it. There do seem to be a lot of those around these days...both of my brothers were like that when they were in high school, thank god they didn't stick with it for long.
Hey, Some lasted days, some awhile, and some were 2 or 3 different boyfriends at the time. I really don't care what you say because I never meet you in real life. Also, started when I was ten(what can I say? I was a cute kid =D). Just answering a question that was asked. Why would I lie to impress repressed people? I still have the phone numbers of each guy I ever dated.
Anyways, When I said hook-uped with guys, I meant like on vacation or visiting other places and just found some guys to "fool around" with. I just never went all the way. Why would you prevs want to know >:(? I just say, if the guy has the balls to ask me out and i'm not dating someone that might lead somewhere eventually, then i'll go out with him to give him a chance.
Some people call me a slut, but that's because they're jealous that the aren't just having fun. So please don't make assumtions unless you really know me.
Have a girlfriend, same girl for nearly 4 years now. We play Warhammer Online together, but other than that and awesome sex, she basically keeps outta my hair. Well, not totally. We will watch a movie together and 'cuddle' days when she comes over to do my laundry.
Motokemu: well, yes, you should wait until your brain is at adult development level before entering into what is an adult situation. Not sure where you live, but someone aged 17 is still considered a child in australia. Can't vote, can't legally sign a contract without a guardian, can't drink, etc etc.
Not trying to rain on your parade, but come back to me in a few years and tell me again how great it was to get married so young. I'm pretty sure you'll have all the regrets that everyone I've ever met who married young has.