...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex? *the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
mrhockey220: Havent had mine yet and im 14 :( Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.
I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionally handsome".
Mine was quite a long time ago, but, to be quite honest, I remember it to this day. I guess in a way, it's the one to judge all kisses by :) Too bad I was a jerk back in those days, and what could have been a long relationship turned into nothing more than a few fun summer weeks.... But hey... time goes by
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex? *the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.
Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.
mrhockey220: Havent had mine yet and im 14 :( Working on it though!
Don't worry. I was in high school when I had my first, (though I don't recall whether it was my freshman or sophomore year). But I've kissed a lot of girls since then. After the first time, one way or the other, the frequency tends to increase a lot.
Ya im currently entering sophmore year. I entered high school not knowing anybody so that could be part of it but otherwise im a nice guy, i play hockey, take care of myself, and workout. Its all there but im just too damn scared to ask someone out i guess.
If that's the case, then you're on the fast track. I doubt you'd even have to do anything other than be at the right place at the right time.
Well I sure hope so. High School holds many surprises right? Maybe one day ill overcome my fear of asking someone out.
Dude, fear of rejection is something that I'd say 98% of all guys have to go through. Overcoming that fear is about the realization that the worst outcome you could possibly expect is for her to say "no". If that happens, you put it behind you and try again.
I used to have this fear that I would get laughed at by the girl I was asking, but that hasn't happened to me yet, and I'm DEFINITELY not what one would call "traditionall handsome".
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex? *the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.
Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.
Nah, actually that does help a lot. I'll have to give the flirting some work considering how shy I am. But, thank you very much.
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex? *the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Ehhh, not so much. If it's just about sex, unless you are on par with an A&F model, then that tends to be something you have to actively pursue.
I have been told that if I were to build up my upper body and abs, and that once I get the braces off, that I could model. But yeah, I guess I have to actually try to get laid. Maybe I'll have my cousin hook me up with one of her hot friends when I go up to Mass. this summer.
female hook ups are a great way to go. Girls are very persuasive with one another. They are ideal wingmen.
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.
That's happened to me at least half a dozen times. If anything though, that should put some steam in those engines to get it right.
...love is something you find much quicker when you're not looking for it...
Does that go the same for sex? *the loneliness is beginning to get to him*
Don't worry, you're not the only one it's beginning to get to. I'm starting to wonder if people think I'm a lesbian or something.
You're a girl? Not to sound sexist, but you shouldn't be having trouble finding a guy who is willing to have sex with you. I've helped countless guys some, but a girl with the same trouble?...that seems almost unheard of.
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".
If I were to give you advice (that is to say, if you were even looking for it, and if not, then we can pretend I didn't say anything), I'd say get out, meet some new guys, and be aggressive with your flirtation. Make it really hard to misconstrue your intentions. When it comes to the second glance from guys, we tend to only give it to borderline supermodels. Smart girls realize that sexy and hot are two different concepts altogether. You are bound to find MANY guys who are willing to give you the shot you're looking for.
Again, if you're not looking for advice though, just disregard.
Nah, actually that does help a lot. I'll have to give the flirting some work considering how shy I am. But, thank you very much.
glad I can help. Not to brag, but hooking people up is...well a forte of mine.
I guess ur right. U hav to hav that right moment where u just go "What the fuck could possibly happen?" and just go for it. I actually did hav that moment once and she said yes but i guess she didnt want to go on with it and we remained friends but we never did anything.
That's happened to me at least half a dozen times. If anything though, that should put some steam in those engines to get it right.
Well im sure once i get to know people at my school better, things will start going my way.
I remember the first time I kissed someone. The first time I kissed a girl was in first grade. I don't remember why I kissed that girl, but I did. I think we used to kiss before class all the time. We probably didn't know what it meant at the time...
The first time I truly kissed someone and meant it was probably 7th grade. I was with this girl for a long time and we finally kissed and by god it was awesome. I think she dumped me a month later for not moving fast enough with her...
The first time I made out was the 3rd to the last day I was living there. I was going to be moving to Maryland, and we both spilled our hearts about each other. That was like, 4 years ago. Dry spell ever since. I still keep in touch with the girl who I made out though. She's really nice.
Grimrider6: This is weird... am I the only one who doesn't remember his first kiss at all? I mean, I remember a series of kisses in the past. I can chronologically order my girlfriends, so I know who my first kiss was with through basic deductive logic. But I can't clearly remember the time, location, or circumstance of my first kiss.
a friend of mine once dated a girl for two years, was utterly in love with her... and then one day she 'went' lesbian.
so it could be worse. /:
This has happened to me, not once, but twice. To be honest, it was kind of relieving. They weren't ditching me for another dude, and it wasn't something I did....or at least I don't think it was.
I find it pretty hard to believe there are 119 people on the escapist who have never ever kissed someone, now kissed someone properly makes more sense since noone really does that till 13ish.
As for me, first kiss was probably when i was 8ish and i dont remember it atall. First kiss of someone i'm dating i remember though, my most recent ex we had our first kiss in the rain.
This has happened to me, not once, but twice. To be honest, it was kind of relieving. They weren't ditching me for another dude, and it wasn't something I did....or at least I don't think it was.
no it wasn't anything you did. i don't believe that anyone 'chooses' their sexuality.
First kiss when I was 8 or nine, not a proper one thought as you can imagine and first proper all out kiss was at 13, then another at 16. (I'm 16 at the moment)
15. Muse's 'Hyper Chondriac Music' was playing on a loop in the background. It was great, because this was a girl I'd actually liked. Could have been a lot worse.
xmetatr0nx: My first kiss from another girl i was maybe 7, she was 9. It was so cute we were boyfriend and girlfriend in that little kid way. First proper kiss i was 13 and the girl ambushed me outside of the school dance...best kiss ever.
Wow, not to be rude, do you live in like the Wonder Years or something??
I'm actually not looking for straight out sex. Getting a guy to even look at me twice is the problem since I usually just end up being "one of the guys".