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How did you have sex your first couple of times?
By which I mean how did you convince another person to do the do with you.
Were you boyfriend/girlfriend? howd you meet? howd you get close enough to permit the act? how long were you together before?
Share your experience with someone who has none wont you?

Well he stuck his no-no place into my... ohhh, I see.
This sounds awfully creepy, are you asking this in a raspy voice while concealed behind a bush in the park!?

EeveeElectro:
Well he stuck his no-no place into my... ohhh, I see.
This sounds awfully creepy, are you asking this in a raspy voice while concealed behind a bush in the park!?

His avatar def seems to imply he is yea.....

OT.

We were together and she asked me if I wanted to sleep with her, I said yes....

We wanted to have sex with eachother, we did it, ???, Profit!

EeveeElectro:
Well he stuck his no-no place into my... ohhh, I see.
This sounds awfully creepy, are you asking this in a raspy voice while concealed behind a bush in the park!?

Intimate I know but you dont have to share if you dont want to.
Just lamentful this valentines day and could use some love stories....

Montezuma's Lawyer:
We wanted to have sex with eachother, we did it, ???, Profit!

So one of you just brought it up one day or what?

CODE-D:

Montezuma's Lawyer:
We wanted to have sex with eachother, we did it, ???, Profit!

So one of you just brought it up one day or what?

Nope, we werent even dating at the time, we were friends and it led to sex. Afterwards we decided to have a relationship.

EDIT: I suppose you mean the time of the act itself, We were hanging out at my apartment, we started making out in the kitchen, spontaniously (I followed the old phrase "Fortune Favors the Bold") and it led to my bedroom.

Let's see - I grabbed my dick with my hand and tugged on it. It lacked finesse.

Montezuma's Lawyer:

CODE-D:

Montezuma's Lawyer:
We wanted to have sex with eachother, we did it, ???, Profit!

So one of you just brought it up one day or what?

Nope, we werent even dating at the time, we were friends and it led to sex. Afterwards we decided to have a relationship.

EDIT: I suppose you mean the time of the act itself, We were hanging out at my apartment, we started making out in the kitchen, spontaniously (I followed the old phrase "Fortune Favors the Bold") and it led to my bedroom.

No I meant both, very interesting that it happened so fast but I mean, you were friends for awhile.

Just bring it up in conversation, or by text, or alternatively get completed wasted out of your mind and see where it goes. I assume you're implicitly looking for advice.

There are loads of ways to go about it, and it sort of depends on the person...but making a move, or just having a straight conversation about it, are probably the best ways to go.

Truth or dare, with all the dares being sexual related. I was also pretty young.

Esotera:
Just bring it up in conversation, or by text, or alternatively get completed wasted out of your mind and see where it goes. I assume you're implicitly looking for advice.

There are loads of ways to go about it, and it sort of depends on the person...but making a move, or just having a straight conversation about it, are probably the best ways to go.

Ah....I see you found my true motives.....

EcksTeaSea:
Truth or dare, with all the dares being sexually related. I was also pretty young.

If that is true then wow, just wow.

CODE-D:

EeveeElectro:
Well he stuck his no-no place into my... ohhh, I see.
This sounds awfully creepy, are you asking this in a raspy voice while concealed behind a bush in the park!?

Intimate I know but you dont have to share if you dont want to.
Just lamentful this valentines day and could use some love stories....

I see. I'm sure some people won't mind sharing the fact they've actually had sex :P
As for me, I wasn't with the guy, but the first couple of times were with him. He loved me for about a month>.<
I don't mind sharing this because it was completely loveless and I wish I could take it all back. I hope someone can learn from my mistake.

So even if one person reads this who is a virgin I want them to know they should be 100% sure about their first time and not just jump into bed with someone so they can brag at school/work whatever. Trust me, you will regret it when you find the right person.

Had been with my first boyfriend for three months (met him through my friend, he was her boyfriend's best friend), I was his first too (in the girlfriend sense and in the having sex with sense), I was sleeping at his house as I often did, he had a single bed we slept in together. He's being all fidgety and nervous and I sort of have an idea of what's on his mind, then he comes out with "Soooo... doyouwannahavesex?" and I immediately said "Yes." then there was a slight pause as (I assume) he boggled at how small a deal that was and then we got to it.

I'd been on the pill for a month already 'cause I'm dead sensible like that. So it was no condom, me on top, and finally him frantically telling me to quieten down because his mum was sleeping next door (I figure that was what cost me my orgasm, what a shame).

... See, when I was still with him I wrote two sides of an A4 page describing this night for someone's art project (yes, they were asking people how they lost their virginity for a college project) but now I can't bring myself to be anything other than "Eh, it happened, it wasn't a big deal" about it.

Now, the guys I've slept with who I don't wish I'd never met, I could tell you some soppier (and funnier!) stories about...

Interestingly enough, we both liked each other alot, and body language and hormones did the rest. Ah, the wonders of nature!

For me a little desperation and a little alcohol did the trick <.<

Let's just say the second time the next day was a whole lot better.

... *sigh*

God I feel so damned confused right now... I wished my first time was with my first girlfriend... but it happened with my second and I can't say a bad thing about it.

I'll expand if/when I feel less shitty...

I didn't convince anyone. Rather, she convinced me.
Girl from my school.
She'd admitted to being attracted to me something like a year prior. I wasn't looking for any relationship with her though.
I'd been chatting with her online quite frequently in the last year, and we were both drunk as all fuck.

To be honest, I can't remember too much of it. I do remember that it failed quite miserably though. We were interrupted as well, I remember.
I don't generally do actual stupid things when I'm drunk, myself, but I have a tendency to go with the flow, I guess.

Was with my best friend in his uni dorm. We'd been interested in each other for a while, starting fooling around abit and then I went to visit him at uni and we did the do. Ended up dating him for an awesome 9 months too. I'm happy that my first time was one I'll never regret and with someone I really care about. We're still good friends now so it worked out anyway.

CODE-D:

Montezuma's Lawyer:

CODE-D:
So one of you just brought it up one day or what?

Nope, we werent even dating at the time, we were friends and it led to sex. Afterwards we decided to have a relationship.

EDIT: I suppose you mean the time of the act itself, We were hanging out at my apartment, we started making out in the kitchen, spontaniously (I followed the old phrase "Fortune Favors the Bold") and it led to my bedroom.

No I meant both, very interesting that it happened so fast but I mean, you were friends for awhile.

And we still are :) We've been together for nearly 4 years now.

Well theres a bit of a story....

I was 13 she was 12, we were in music class together in journor high. we both played the flute.

It took me over 4 months for her to talk to me, all the while i talked to her. We became friends over time, and soon we kinda dated. (Its gets a bit ugly here >.> ) I was losing intrests and she had totally fallen in love with me. She saw that i was losing intrest and basicly said lets have sex, in hopes of keeping me. I well.... Didnt say no, so we had sex, then 2 weeks later I dumped her.

While yes this makes me look terrible, I am now still having sex with her and we are still great friends.

The normal way I expect. For lack of a better word I simply asked. To give more detail, there was the relatively standard progression: we made out, groping ensued, at some point pants came off and from there biological inertia (i.e. being a teenager) took over.

I 15 years old, nightclub toilet with a girl who was 5 years older who I had met 2 hours before hand. As for how, stand up doggy. And that was that.

CODE-D:
How did you have sex your first couple of times?
By which I mean how did you convince another person to do the do with you.
Were you boyfriend/girlfriend? howd you meet? howd you get close enough to permit the act? how long were you together before?
Share your experience with someone who has none wont you?

It's funny, because after I read this and looked at your avatar I felt kind of creeped out. As for me, the answer is I haven't. Simple and true.

Met a guy on a dating site, made some ineunnedo about studying anatomy and linked him to a seanbaby article. About an hour later, he's there, we make awkward conversation then we kiss and he sticks it up my poopshoot. Then I take him home,cry a little,get a happy meal,and am scared shitless by the toy they gave me.

After I stopped laughing a bit like wow, I was actually pleasantly surprised to see there are actually serious responses. There's another forum I'm one that I'm sure wouldn't have been so cooperative.

I can't answer 'cause I'm a virgin but I'm so bookmarking because I too am interested. Maybe those who had "just happened" sex can shed some light as to how it "just happened."

CODE-D:
How did you have sex your first couple of times?
By which I mean how did you convince another person to do the do with you.
Were you boyfriend/girlfriend? howd you meet? howd you get close enough to permit the act? how long were you together before?
Share your experience with someone who has none wont you?

I drew out a circle in blood just like the book described, lit the candles, chanted the words right, and the rest is history.

Let's see, we weren't a couple, but we'd go on dates and hang out, and that started several months before she went to do some photography internship at Disneyworld. Close to the end of her internship, I'd saved enough to go visit her and for us to stay in her favorite resort. Second night there, we started kissing in the bed, and it led to the horizontal tango.

And here's the annoying part.

The day I was flying back home, I told her I'd like a proper relationship, and she said she'd think about it. Well, after she came back, her answer came in the form of a Facebook status that said she was dating someone else.

Emperor Platypus:

EeveeElectro:
Well he stuck his no-no place into my... ohhh, I see.
This sounds awfully creepy, are you asking this in a raspy voice while concealed behind a bush in the park!?

His avatar def seems to imply he is yea.....

OT.

We were together and she asked me if I wanted to sleep with her, I said yes....

I wish all women were that forward with what they feel. I got so tired of the head games. Hence why marriage is so much better. It's as simple as "Hey, wanna have sex tonight?" now. 9/10 the answer is Yes, so win for me.

Mortai Gravesend:

I drew out a circle in blood just like the book described, lit the candles, chanted the words right, and the rest is history.

Oh for the love of...

Dammit, that's another spawn of Nyarlathotep I need to track down and kill! Thank you for making my job harder! >: (

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On topic: Still a virgin, hopefully my first time will be with my girlfriend at some vague point in the future. I'm honestly not all that fussed about sex, TBQH. I'll wait as long as I need to, since I'm actually pretty happy with the innocent phase we're in right now (been a year since last week)

Well, my hand had always been there for me, through thick and thin, and has never uttered a word of protest. In fact, it often intitiates things =P.
Oh, you meant with a woman....
Er...
Lemme get back to ya on that...

Sort of weird because all the girls that I had sex with are the ones that started it.

Girl 1- Eventually the party was over and I found her asking me if we could go in my room and have a talk.

Girl 2- Really cool chick that liked me from work and I let her sleep on my couch while she was looking for an apartment. Got a bottle of booze from the store and then after awhile she kissed me.

Girl 3- Eventually a girl kept bugging me on Myspace to add her as a friend because we knew alot of the same people. So I met her at a bar and we sat and talked. Eventually I told her I was going to go home but she had other plans.

Girl 4- Got home from work and found my roommate hanging out with these two girls. Eventually after several hours of talking, one of the girls asked me if she could see my Chinchilla. So I let her in my room and we got my pet Chinchilla out of her cage. Everything seemed normal until she decided it was time for me to put my penis in her mouth.

UncleUlty:
Met a guy on a dating site, made some ineunnedo about studying anatomy and linked him to a seanbaby article. About an hour later, he's there, we make awkward conversation then we kiss and he sticks it up my poopshoot. Then I take him home,cry a little,get a happy meal,and am scared shitless by the toy they gave me.

And this unholy unison led to the spawning of Popsicle Pete as fortold by the cryer of woe- Seanbaby.

UncleUlty:
Met a guy on a dating site, made some ineunnedo about studying anatomy and linked him to a seanbaby article. About an hour later, he's there, we make awkward conversation then we kiss and he sticks it up my poopshoot. Then I take him home,cry a little,get a happy meal,and am scared shitless by the toy they gave me.

that was beautiful... i really want to turn that into a sketch called 'How I Met Your Father'. "Well... we met on a dating site, talked, and he stuck it up my poopshoot." that is the single best sentence I've ever heard.
Also, what was the toy, and why was it scary?

OT: well, I opened up PornHub and clicked play. then I got my hand and I started.
So far, I haven't fucked any man or woman, or been fucked by a man or really dominant woman.

;(
though it's not for lack of trying.

Everyone's approaching this so awkwardly (probably cos it's awkward) but mine's really typical. We were 16, had been going out for a few months, had sex, it sucked and then we broke up. Ahh, youth.

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