Objectifying women
Yes, fat chicks!
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No fat chicks!
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I'm a fat chick and I find this thread offensive
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I'm a thin chick and I also find this thread offensive
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Poll: So... I think I like fat chicks.

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I'm fairly skinny. In my two sexual experiences to date, I've been with women who were significantly heavier than I am. At first, I didn't know if I'd like it or if I'd even be attracted to an overweight individual. I was wrong. Everything society told me about how I should feel about people with these body types was incorrect. It was awesome. I'm kind of thinking I prefer it. There's something tactile about the softness, the flab, the weight, the small folds, and the disproportionate size that just turns me on. It feels more feminine somehow.

I'm not saying I only like fat girls. I'm definitely not saying all the girls I've ever been attracted to were fat. I don't think I was attracted to these girls merely because I thought I could "get with them" because of low self esteem. I'm not saying I like all fat girls. I still don't think I've been with someone who would qualify as "morbidly obese" yet. I have never been with a skinny girl, so I'm not even sure if that would be substantially different. An overweight coworker was telling me awhile back that he had reservations about dating a woman who was chunkier than what he was used to. I had to tell him that I used to feel the same way, but "dude, you don't even know..."

With all the emphasis society and women themselves place on weight gain/loss, I feel like a bit of weirdo. Then again, I don't think it's a full on "fetish" either. Basically, a woman's body type has a limited effect on how I feel about that person and with some of the things I've heard guys say, that seems out of the ordinary for my gender. Is this normal? Have any other posters seen the light?

It's not that unusual. If it were then there wouldn't be so much porn on it, and there seems to be an awful lot. And that's just in the newsagents.
Everyone has a different type that they prefer, and as you get older, you may find that your type changes, it's just how it is.

Normal? What use is normal?

If it works then go with it.

This is no different from people who prefer blondes to brunettes.

While I do find your poll to be somewhat offensive and flippant (I didn't answer it, btw), I understand the content of your thread. There's nothing wrong with liking what you are really attracted to. Who cares what magazine covers portray as being "the ideal woman", that whole thing is so dysfunctionally distorted its ridiculous. While I am attracted to beefier men myself, I do like variety. Ultimately, its just an outer package and there has to be a whole lot more inside them for a deeper level of attraction to happen.

According to some porn infograph I found the other day, fat women porn is the 6th largest (no pun intended) genre. So its not unusual at all.

Me personally? I dunno man. I dont like fat chicks, but I dont like really skinny ones either.

SmashLovesTitanQuest:
According to some porn infograph I found the other day, fat women porn is the 6th largest (no pun intended) genre. So its not unusual at all.

Me personally? I dunno man. I dont like fat chicks, but I dont like really skinny ones either.

Pun intended or not, that still made me laugh pretty hard.

As for the topic, it's normal to like that. It's normal to like anything(almost). I guess I would say that's the beauty of the human condition. That we all have different likes and dislikes but it's totally cool(most of the time).

zelda2fanboy:
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Welcome to the club, man.

I'm 30 and have slept with my fair share of women- tall, short, pale, dark, heavy, skinny.

I would pick a larger girl over a skinny one almost every time. I say almost, because you have to look at every women on her own merits, looks, personality, body, attitude, sense of humor, ect. I mean if someone is boring, or thick, or a bitch, it does not matter what she looks like.

I find bigger women more attractive and more feminine. Women are supposed to have boobs and bums and bellys, so they can better handle the strain that carrying a child places on there body. My ideal women is size 12-14, B cup boobs with a bit of a belly and a big bum, in general, I like pear shaped girls. The one thing I must have is a pretty face, that is non-negotiable. My g/f of four and a half year ticks most of these boxes, she is stunning, with huge blue eyes, bee-stung lips and a button nose. She has B cup boobs and a big bum. She is a little bigger around the belly than I would like being a size 14-16. However, all this pales when compared to her personalty, not only is she sweet and loving, but also funny. In fact, if your were to ask me for one reason why I'm with her it's cause she makes me laugh.

It took me a while to admit that I had a thing for the lager lady, like you said, OP, society seems to say that fancying bigger people is wrong. I say bollox! I'll fancy whom I like. One common retort I get is "Do like fat chicks cause you can't get a skinny one?" This is also bollox. I would not describe my self as skinny, I'm far too stocky for that, but I'm fairly fit, I run 5k in under 20 mins several times a week, and I lift weights. I'm a doorman/bouncer and regularly have all kinds of women tell me I'm "cute" and "hot".

So, to sum up- fucking go for it! Don't let your peers of society dictate the girls you like.

I have an M.A. in Classics and I can tell you the Latin noun, voluptas, translates to "pleasure" in English. Says it all.

I don't like really overweight women, I don't like really skinny women either (in looks, not personality, obviously). Which makes sense seeing as both are a sign of evolutionary unhealthyness.

You're acting like it's a bad thing :/
I've seen plenty of "Fat chicks" that are absolutely beautiful. Pretty sure I read somewhere as men grow older they start being attracted to ladies with a bit more meat, makes them think "She look healthy enough to carry my child!" or something.
I love a bit of podge. I like something to cuddle up to, and larger ladies usually have big-ass boobies which are great to sleep on xP
Then I've seen some gorgeous skinny men and women. Weight doesn't matter to me unless they're seriously unhealthy.
Just because society might not deem fat beautiful, doesn't mean it isn't.

EeveeElectro:
You're acting like it's a bad thing :/
I've seen plenty of "Fat chicks" that are absolutely beautiful. Pretty sure I read somewhere as men grow older they start being attracted to ladies with a bit more meat, makes them think "She look healthy enough to carry my child!" or something.
I love a bit of podge. I like something to cuddle up to, and larger ladies usually have big-ass boobies which are great to sleep on xP
Then I've seen some gorgeous skinny men and women. Weight doesn't matter to me unless they're seriously unhealthy.
Just because society might not deem fat beautiful, doesn't mean it isn't.

Yup, this.

Most guys I know are kinda chubby, and no one says a damn thing, but apparently a womans weight is eeeeverybodys business. And if she is overweight, finding her attractive makes you a weirdo?

Nothing wrong with liking ladies because they are larger, liking larger ladies or anything of the sort. Unless someone in unhealthy weight doesn't really matter. Just because the media tries to tell you the only sexy ladies are anorexic doesn't mean you have to listen. =)

I personally tend to look at it more in terms of having curves in all the right places and my taste definitely runs more towards more fully figured women as well. I guess there is an upper limit but, if given the choice, I will almost always find the heavier girl more attractive.

I don't mind larger girls. I don't find extremes of either body size attractive, but as long as one's size doesn't seem unhealthy, then there are more important things than body size in my book. I have a good friend who thinks that Kim Kardashian is just too fat for his unwaveringly absurd standards. I think that his views do no one any favors.

For a more educated view

Also, to Chevy, I'm very aware the Sonic is all-new by now, but I'm not going to buy one just because you threw some money at SolveMedia for some reason

Women can't change their body types (proportions and what part of their bodies gain weight) and people can't really help what they're attracted to, so I don't see what the big deal is or why anyone should be blamed for what they like or how they look.

I look at some people who are a little chubby and think they look so squishy and cuddly and lovely.

Really thin people tend to look better in most clothes though. I don't know if it's some kind of instinctive association between waifish confidence and coolness or it's just the media making us associate thin people with fashion authorities. Larger women are a bit let down by modern fashion and conventional attire like uniforms don't often flatter curves at all. In lots of ancient civilisations big was beautiful. Even pre-sixties there were weight gain formulas being advertised. It's not weird at all, really.

asacatman:
I don't like really overweight women, I don't like really skinny women either (in looks, not personality, obviously). Which makes sense seeing as both are a sign of evolutionary unhealthyness.

HerrBobo:
Women are supposed to have boobs and bums and bellys, so they can better handle the strain that carrying a child places on there body.

Not necessarily. People evolved all kinds of bodies that happened to be fit for their environment and just as good for childbearing.

I wouldn't say I like "fat" as such but I do like my women to have some meat on them.

I think i'd be too scared to have sex with someone that was incredibly thin. I'd be far too worried about breaking them.

zelda2fanboy:
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Well, you are what you are and you like what you like. Your choice is whether to listen to society, and to be honest, for something like this, you're under absolutely no obligation to do so. The size 0 fascination everyone (not on here, but you get what I mean) seems to have these days is, if anything, worse.

That said, I like me a healthy girl... nuff sed.

Rawne1980:
I wouldn't say I like "fat" as such but I do like my women to have some meat on them.

I think i'd be too scared to have sex with someone that was incredibly thin. I'd be far too worried about breaking them.

being quite hefty myself that is an actual concern of mine.
to the extent where i haver passed up on a few girls because of it.

There's nothing wrong with liking fat women; everyone has their different tastes. Don't listen to the media's idea of the perfect, size-zero, blonde girls heavily padded with make-up. I know it sounds cheesy, but there's more to a woman than her appearance. But you're attracted to both her figure and personality, then why should anyone criticize you? Besides, fat women tend to have large breasts, so that can be a bonus.

I personally like androgynous women. That's not even necessarily a fetish (there's no need for labels like that anyway); it's just one type of women that I'm attracted to. But I'd take curves over anorexic any day.

Also, fuck Kim Kardashian. She's seriously average, so I hate how everyone overrates that arrogant whore so much. Girls like that tend have boring and/or shit personalities.

To each their own. Who am I to say the body type I like is the only one you should like too?

I hope you find someone and make her happy OP.

step 1 if figuring what kind of lady you like, and sounds like you got that figured out, so go forth and do what ever makes you happy

I don't mean to be shallow or objectify women, but I just don't find overweight women attractive whatsoever.
I can still say "oh yea she's a good lookin' gal'" or whatnot, but it's not sexually appealing.

I can appreciate the fact I don't look like a calven klein model, but I do quite look after myself, and I guess I just expect that to be reciprocated.

Though that's just me.

Actually despite popular belief that guys only like super skinny chicks, most guys actually prefer a girl whose a little on the plumper side. It's media portraying super models and actresses as "don't lift that gallon of milk or your arms will come off" twig-thin.

Though personally I don't see much of that myself. *sighs* Forever alone...

But as for the OP sounds to me like your perfectly normal.

I am an average chick (Hard to gain or loose weight body type) and I have no feelings toward this preferance of yours. *click*

Yeah this is a fairly normal preferance. Lots of men like heavier girls. Media just likes to lie to you. It's not a shocker. It's all preferance.

Lots of men hate frigid sarcastic obsessed with personal hobbies and work types, which is why I'm /forever alone. Yeehaw. Ugh sorry my relationship phobia is showing. I have more fufillment in my work than other human beings.

I'm a chubby chaser. Hell I prefer them to skinny girls. Now sing with me:

Ah, you gonna take me home tonight...

zelda2fanboy:
I'm fairly skinny. In my two sexual experiences to date, I've been with women who were significantly heavier than I am. At first, I didn't know if I'd like it or if I'd even be attracted to an overweight individual. I was wrong. Everything society told me about how I should feel about people with these body types was incorrect. It was awesome. I'm kind of thinking I prefer it. There's something tactile about the softness, the flab, the weight, the small folds, and the disproportionate size that just turns me on. It feels more feminine somehow.

I'm not saying I only like fat girls. I'm definitely not saying all the girls I've ever been attracted to were fat. I don't think I was attracted to these girls merely because I thought I could "get with them" because of low self esteem. I'm not saying I like all fat girls. I still don't think I've been with someone who would qualify as "morbidly obese" yet. I have never been with a skinny girl, so I'm not even sure if that would be substantially different. An overweight coworker was telling me awhile back that he had reservations about dating a woman who was chunkier than what he was used to. I had to tell him that I used to feel the same way, but "dude, you don't even know..."

With all the emphasis society and women themselves place on weight gain/loss, I feel like a bit of weirdo. Then again, I don't think it's a full on "fetish" either. Basically, a woman's body type has a limited effect on how I feel about that person and with some of the things I've heard guys say, that seems out of the ordinary for my gender. Is this normal? Have any other posters seen the light?

Hey, the more you discover about yourself the better. So what if it isn't what society considers the "norm".

For example, I recently found out that I was gay. Years of sexual frustration are over! Hooray!

I have no idea what is going on but as long as you are happy good for you.

Liking different things is fine. I can't call it normal as in the majority, but it's not wrong. People think I'm weird because I'm not attracted to buff dudes. I don't care what people think, keep loving who you love. Unless it's illegal.

There's a big variation in fitness among people with extra body fat, depending on whether they exercise. On one side you have the couch potato: slouched posture, sagging breasts (male and female), uneven distribution of fat, they were probably in better shape at one point in adult life but let muscles atrophy into fat. On the opposite side you have the physically active but high body fat crowd: overweight for all or most of their life, fat is evenly distributed and proportioned, back muscles support large breasts from sagging, flexible enough to dance, heart works well enough to support arousal, etc.

The experts agree, losing weight and body fat is more about diet than exercise, while exercise brings a lot of other health benefits besides weight loss. This leads to the situation where an overweight person who exercises can be more healthy and attractive than a normal weight person who does not exercise. For women especially, I wish the media talked more about this, put more emphasis on health through physical activity than diets and low body weight.

Hey, good for you, man. You've got a sea to choose from.
Me personally... I don't like fat or skinny (which do feel similar, though skinny is easier to lift and move), I like fit. The rarest of all american women.

I like fat chicks.
THEIR BELLIES ARE SO SOFT!

So yeah, don't let what's defined as beautiful by some ass-hat who isn't you (Society) make you unhappy because it's taboo to like what you like,
Friggin go for it.

It's not weird at all. My dad liked larger women and I'm gay and like larger men (though I prefer a bit chubby rather than massively obese).

Honestly, it's one of my more normal preferences.

Go for it man. Nothing wrong with that. Personally I prefer curvy girls (Christina Hendricks, Marilyn Monroe etc.). However the distinction between curves and fat is a distinction I wish the internet would grasp. You try to look for this:

And end up with pictures of this:

Amethyst Wind:
Normal? What use is normal?

If it works then go with it.

This is no different from people who prefer blondes to brunettes.

Well, that was a quick /thread.

But seriously, if everyone involved is a consenting adult, like whoever you like and do whatever you wanna--just don't hurt anyone. Blonds, dark skin, freckles, tall, smart, funny-we all like different things and that's a good thing! It means there's someone out there who will love you for just being you.

Just remember to treat everyone as a human being ;)

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I was about to step out, so I don't have oodles of time. In fact I, at best, was able to skim the post.

It would beneficent you if you didn't refer to them as "fat chicks." It doesn't matter how much they appeal to you, and you're able to see through societies slim-preferred influences. If you can't respect women in general, then it doesn't much matter who you prefer, you'll be single.

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