...For those of you who want some more details here about what you're wishing me luck for. I'm about to ask out a professor at my school.
My final semester as a student here is about to end, and I can't let myself leave the school forever without taking this shot.
Chances are she'll say No (and I'm not saying this as any sort of confidence issue just...I mean in the given scenario, it makes sense lol)
But I'm gonna go for it. Carpe Diem and all the jazz!
EDIT: Here's what happened, the story in its entirety
Spoiler: Click to 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Technically I'm not one of her students. I know there are probably still rules there. I just need to ask her tomorrow because it's probably the last chance I'd get to actually see her.
If I wait until the semester is completely over, I'll have no idea how to get in touch with her.
I have to play my pieces carefully here, timing is everything...or...maybe just a fairly big part.
Jesus wishes you luck!PHA+PGltZyBzcmM9Imh0dHA6Ly9hc3NldHMuZGl5bG9sLmNvbS9oZnMvMjY1Lzc1MC84OGQvcmVzaXplZC9qZXN1cy1zYXlzLW1lbWUtZ2VuZXJhdG9yLWdvb2QtbHVjay1kb24tdC1raWxsLXlvdXJzZWxmLTViM2FlNi5qcGciIGFsdD0iaW1hZ2UiLz48L3A+
Didn't you make a thread about this a few months ago, asking advice on the situation? Or was that someone else? *shrug* Either way, good luck. May happiness and fortune find you.
wintercoat: Didn't you make a thread about this a few months ago, asking advice on the situation? Or was that someone else? *shrug* Either way, good luck. May happiness and fortune find you.
I did actually. I wasn't sure if anyone would remember that.
...well, I mean maybe someone else did too. But yeah, I certainly did. Now my waiting has paid off. The semester is coming to a close and I'm gonna roll the dice here.
wintercoat: Didn't you make a thread about this a few months ago, asking advice on the situation? Or was that someone else? *shrug* Either way, good luck. May happiness and fortune find you.
I did actually. I wasn't sure if anyone would remember that.
...well, I mean maybe someone else did too. But yeah, I certainly did. Now my waiting has paid off. The semester is coming to a close and I'm gonna roll the dice here.
Aha! I knew I wasn't insane! Well...more insane...insaner? Anyways...hope you roll nat 20s, or at least don't roll a critical fail. Last thing you need is a lawsuit, right?
geK0: How old is this teacher and why are you interested? : \
Admittedly a bit older than I am (doesn't really matter to me, though admittedly that might matter to her) and I'm interested because she is an intelligent, mature, beautiful woman who I'm attracted to. What more reason do I need? ^^
Alright, well I'm off to bed now, folks. The next time you see me here, I'll be sure to give a full report of what happened.
Thanks for all the support. I'm feeling pretty darn good about this now (:
If this teacher has been teaching there a while she probably gets at least half a dozen students ask her each year, but that doesn't mean that you can't still ask nor that you won't be successful. As they say nothing ventured, nothing gained.
You're a crazy bastard and you will most likely fail and embarrass yourself greatly.
Therefore let my complete admiration soften the inevitable blow. Remember that on these things it is far better to regret an action an an inaction. I stand ready with a celebratory or commiserative alcoholic beverage.
Wish me luck!
...For those of you who want some more details here about what you're wishing me luck for. I'm about to ask out a professor at my school.
My final semester as a student here is about to end, and I can't let myself leave the school forever without taking this shot.
Chances are she'll say No (and I'm not saying this as any sort of confidence issue just...I mean in the given scenario, it makes sense lol)
But I'm gonna go for it. Carpe Diem and all the jazz!
EDIT: Here's what happened, the story in its entirety
Spoiler: Click to View