Why are men attracted to lesbians?

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I'm a straight man and I never really been turned on by 2 girls banging each other. Can someone explain the appeal? I guess it's because a lesbian will never be attracted to me or even a fantasy is why I'm not turned on.

Because watching people bang is hot, and the breast ratio doubles.

I suppose it's just the fantasy. To each his own I guess.

I suppose it's tied to the notion that since a person already knows his/her body, pleasuring someone of the same sex comes off naturally. So straight dudes assume a woman knows best how to pleasure a woman, and fetichize the concept.

Shadowstar38:
Because watching people bang is hot, and the breast ratio doubles.

I couldn't have said it better myself. That's all there is to it I suppose.

Most 'lesbian' porn is aimed at straight guys. So yea, it's just fetishizing it.

It's like being able to make a sandwich without bread. No filler, just the tasty bits.

Okay, seriously, I'd guess that it's because it doesn't trigger an envy/territorial response since there's no guy involved to be envious of.

There's also the menage a trois fantasy, and that could be achieved if only the guy could include himself into the lesbian relationship.

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Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

thaluikhain:
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

Dunno, but I've seen *real* lesbians kiss before irl, and to me, it's as appealing as two men or a straight couple locking lips -- disgusting.

It makes evolutionary sense for men to desire as many women as possible. Most men find a single woman with an hour glass figure attractive, and watching them do suggestive things indicates to men that they want to have sex. Thus, having woman doing things with each other makes our body think they both want the man.

Because it has double the hotness of two naked women, without the icky penis being involved. Most of the time.

Shadowstar38:

thaluikhain:
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?

Not G. Ivingname:

Er, that doesn't necessarily follow. They are not behaving the way real lesbians normally would, yes, but that is not what they are being paid for. OTOH, statistically, yes.

thaluikhain:

Shadowstar38:

thaluikhain:
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?

Yes. But I'd be afraid of a bus full of naked woman if they were staring for no discernible reason.

thaluikhain:

Shadowstar38:

thaluikhain:
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?

Not G. Ivingname:

Er, that doesn't necessarily follow. They are not behaving the way real lesbians normally would, yes, but that is not what they are being paid for. OTOH, statistically, yes.

Fair enough, I guess.

I would note there is some difference between "not acting how real lesbians would act" and "doing things normal lesbians just CAN'T do," although if you work in porn, you will get a lot of things in every hole.

Imagine you're in the mood to bring ten million sperm cells into the world. Happens pretty often, you say. You open up your favorite .com and start going with one of the first page videos.

Well, you don't like the guys that are banging the girls in most of the videos you choose. Some are belligerent to the women, some remind you of someone from high school, some have really annoying voices, some are just plain nasty. You can't do it, there's only so many slapping balls and facial closeups and watching the necessary seven minute blowjob on a ten minute anal video that your penis can take.

So, you decide to skip around that. Lose the man for a woman, go for twice the breasts and none of the balls and chesthair. Win-win, your penis is happy.

Its just a juvenile fantasy that every boy outgrows once he start having actual relationships. I don't know of any grown man that''s preoccupied with that.

I've never understood it, myself.

A good hard pair of runner's legs is a definite plus. An interest in scifi novels, and the ability to suggest several I haven't already read, is excellent. A smile that lights up her whole face, now that I can get into. Not being too clingy is a requirement. I could go on.

But being into other chicks? Nope, not on my list of turn-ons. If anything, it's a disappointment.

Well, for my money it's as follows: I like women. I like the shape of them, curve of the hips, breasts etc, and in the much higher quality porn made by specialist groups, there's a certain softness to the way the action unfolds. Gentle kisses to the ear and collarbone that trail down the body are a nicer way to kick proceedings off than the overly long blow jobs.

Probably because you don't have to look at a penis while trying to "enjoy" the film.

You're seeing the act of sex, but without another guy in the picture, instead replaced by another woman, hopefully equally as hot.

Do lesbians "bang" eachother?

I thought they just, you know, scissor....

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Yeah I'm throwing my wieght it behind basic consensus:

It just looks hot. There's no particular logic or reason to it. I find girls attractive. I find girls engaged in sexual or romantic situations appealing to look at or fantasize about. Put two - or more - girls together, doing the aforementioned, and it's just that - more of the same, and the same is good.

It seems kind of like an odd question to me though. I mean, I could ask... I guess...

Why are people into eating bananas?

I'm a people and I've never really enjoyed eating bananas. Can someone explain the appeal?

Because love is beautiful and women are beautiful. So watching two beautiful women in love expressing that love in a beautiful way tugs at mens heart strings.
Because deep down men too have emotions and are attracted to love

thaluikhain:

Shadowstar38:

thaluikhain:
Possibly because lesbians wouldn't actually be interested in them IRL.

Or they are afraid of naked guys.

Are you personally afraid of naked guys?

If you were on a bus, and you looked up and everyone else on the bus was a naked guy and they were all staring at you and not saying anything, would you be scared?

Not G. Ivingname:

Er, that doesn't necessarily follow. They are not behaving the way real lesbians normally would, yes, but that is not what they are being paid for. OTOH, statistically, yes.

If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

More boobs in one place and less dicks?

As far as peronal tastes go, I've never found the standard man and woman, or many men and woman very appealing to watch (and if I do I get bored very quickly). But I'm more voyeuristic, I'm watching this thing and picturing myself in the scenrio is a bit of a turn off. I look like a cross between Shrek, Jack Black and John Goodman... plus the stay puff marshmellow man. Yesh.

One beautiful lady=Good
Two beautiful ladies=Very Good
Two beautiful ladies loving each other=Very Very Good

For me, it's as simple as that.
However, by that logic, I'm genuinely curious if females find gays attractive.

Evil Smurf:
If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Is... is that the premise for a porno movie?

'Cause I'd watch it.

TheYellowCellPhone:
So, you decide to skip around that. Lose the man for a woman, go for twice the breasts and none of the balls and chesthair. Win-win, your penis is happy.

Never in my life have a seen a statement that so perfectly reflected upon my own soul.

IllumInaTIma:

However, by that logic, I'm genuinely curious if females find gays attractive.

I had a bi-sexual girlfriend who liked looking at gay guys having sex/kissing/so on. But she had a lot going on in the noggin though, if you know what I mean, so I'm not sure if thats true of all bisexuals, women, or whatever.

There are plenty of different reasons you could like it, actually!

There's the aspect of something different, somebody with very foreign and exotic sexual experiences, the idea of getting to see something intimate with no competition of the same field, the list goes on!

As for me? As a bisexual male, I love lesbians! Where it gets a little embarrassing, however, is the fact that I'm really only nominally interested in the sexual aspect. What I really, really love is lesbian fluff. Like the freckly, gregarious farmgirl holding hands with the bespectacled geek, that kind of thing. I don't know what it is, and it makes me feel like the mirror universe version of a slash-fanfiction writing yaoi fangirl, but. I dunno! I just really like it, it's insanely adorable and fills me with warm fuzzies.

You're trying to apply logic to the human libido? Does the word Sisyphean mean anything to you?

But if you want a real answer, and this is talking purely about the sexual aspect, which I am assuming is what you're asking about, I'm gonna say it's kinda basic math. 1 hot woman doing sexual things is good, 2 hot women doing sexual things is better, see? Basic math.
Sure your brain probably knows all the logical things like 'real lesbians would probably never want anything to do with me sexually' and all the other stuff that just about everyone with two brain cells to rub together can figure out, but if you're watching that kinda stuff the logical part of your brain probably isn't working just then if you get my meaning.

Norithics:
There are plenty of different reasons you could like it, actually!

There's the aspect of something different, somebody with very foreign and exotic sexual experiences, the idea of getting to see something intimate with no competition of the same field, the list goes on!

As for me? As a bisexual male, I love lesbians! Where it gets a little embarrassing, however, is the fact that I'm really only nominally interested in the sexual aspect. What I really, really love is lesbian fluff. Like the freckly, gregarious farmgirl holding hands with the bespectacled geek, that kind of thing. I don't know what it is, and it makes me feel like the mirror universe version of a slash-fanfiction writing yaoi fangirl, but. I dunno! I just really like it, it's insanely adorable and fills me with warm fuzzies.

Aside from the bisexual bit (I'm straight) I agree with basically everything you said. It's the weirdest sense of mental dissonance when on the one hand I love lesbian porn, but if a fem-slash couple I really like is made into porn I'm usually repulsed by it. Is there a word for that? Cause I haven't found it yet.

Evil Smurf:
If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Well the man could be Hitler, and the woman could be abusing her children, and... Fuck, we're not going down this road again. This must never be brought up again.

OT: Four boobies are better than two, unless a pair of them is a fat guy's. But then I should probably get out of the porno shoot.

Watch your favorites anywhere: No captcha! Not on the bus!

Because lesbians are still women?

Also wouldn't the "ultimate conquest" be converting a lesbian to cock?

Evil Smurf:
If a naked man and a naked women were each drowning, and you could only save one, which one would it be?

Screw both of them! I would save the whirlpool, it sucks so gud!

EDIT: OT: Essentially it takes the penis out of the equation, some men straight just feel uncomfortable looking at it no matter how deep it is.

Shadowstar38:
the breast ratio doubles.

Huh. That is a remarkably accurate indicator.

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