Coping with S.e.xual Lust? | |
I guess age plays a major role, if you are a teenager then there's nothing to worry about :P Also this might come in handy. | |
well im closing to 30 >< | |
I... have no idea what's going on here. I think you need to mentally restrain yourself by saying "NO BRAIN, I AM A RESPECTABLE PERSON; THERE IS NO WAY THAT I WILL DEGRADE MYSELF JUST FOR A STUPID SEXUAL DESIRE." Other advice: get married. It'll divert your mind away from those urges that you have. Other than that, I got nothing. Oh, well; I tried. | |
Jerk it nightly. | |
it's also proven to reduce the risk of prostate cancer capture: axe | |
well, like I said, jerking it is not enough... | |
Diagnosis: You are horny Really though, enjoy it while it lasts. Your sex drive does have a shelf life. There are worse things than being horny all the time. At least you're learning self-control! | |
Do you have a fulfilling life? It's very common for young people who are currently aimless, depressive, bored or unchallenged to resort to sex as the only activity that gets their adrenaline and endorphines going. If you aren't passionate about your career or hobbies, it's only natural that your mind will cling to sex as one of the only few things that make your life interesting. Find something to be passionate about, something that enthrals you, motivates you, makes you exhilarated with happiness. If you have no idea what such a thing could be, start trying out stuff. Try out new hobbies and activities, sign up for classes on anything from art to dancing to crafts to debate to carpentry and so on. Try volunteering at places, gardening, reading, writing, singing, exploring your city, travelling, driving, sightseeing, sports, hiking, climbing, the activities you could be doing are practically endless. If none of this works, you might be depressed. Anhedonia (the inability to derive pleasure from most activities) is one of the most common symptoms of depression, as are asthenia (physical weakness/tiredness), apathy, irritability, insomnia/excessive sleeping and low willpower. | |
You're an adult male who wants to have sex. What's the problem? Go get some. | |
I kind of have the same issue, and have for a good 10 years now :( | |
This seems to only happen to me in the strangest places. Like church. :/ | |
Go get some hookers. That should make the sexual lust go away for awhile. | |
^Dumb advice. If your sexual urges are getting the better of you, try looking for swinger groups or the usual "no strings attached" posts on sites like cragslist. I don't recommend hookers because you're paying for someone with potential STDs, although that might seem the same as everyone else, they have sex with random men all the time as part of their 'job'. | |
hookers are prolly less likely to have STDs than the average person assuming you don't pick one up from the red light district of thailand, after all i'm sure they are as wary of sex with strangers as you are | |
Question - I take it you are not in a relationship at the moment? Have you tried dating? Someone mentioned casual sex hookup sights. That could work. Do you have any friends who might be willing to become friends with benefits? What it comes down to is - if you want more sex, then get more sex. If you're asking about how to get more sex, then that's a different question. | |
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Hope to receive some kind of advice
thank in advance