So as the title stated, I'm making a list of games I want for Christmas. I'm looking for recommendations on video games to ask for from family and friends. Two games I already have on my list are Dishonored and Dragon's Dogma. I mainly play role playing, fighting, adventure, and some FPS games (I don't play Call of Duty). I'm also mostly interested in new Xbox 360 games, but I'm open for DS/3DS suggestions!

Here's a list of games I own:

Xbox 360:
Assassin's Creed (Brotherhood, Revelations, 3)
Halo (Reach, Combat Evolved, 4)
Devil May Cry HD Collection
Tales of Vesperia
Elder Scrolls (Oblivion, Skyrim (I have all the DLC so far for Skyrim)
El Shaddai
Saints Row The Third
Resident Evil (4, 5, 6)
Soul Calibur (4, 5)
BlazBlue Calamity Trigger
Tekken 6

Nintendo DS/3DS:
Fire Emblem Shadow Dragon
Okamiden
Tales of the Abyss 3D
Legend of Zelda Phantom Hourglass
Monster Rancher DS
Pokemon Pearl (Was a gift, I stopped playing it a while ago)

Games I've owned:
Halo (3, ODST)
Fable (2, 3)
GTA 4 (didn't really like it that much)
Dante's Inferno
Devil May Cry 4
Bioshock (borrowed from a friend)
Legend of Zelda Ocarina of Time 3D

I hope this list helps! And thanks in advanced for your help! :3

Okay, sit down comfortably and have a cup of your preferred tea. I'm about to tell you something that comes straight from my heart.
My friend, cross Dragon's Dogma off of the list, and replace it with

Dark Souls.

Even if you can afford both, please, please, please get Dark Souls.
Seriously, I BEG you. You will absolutely not regret it.

Also, the last sentence in the first paragraph you wrote just...cuts off xD.

PLEASE GET DARK SOULS.

Here are some of my fave games from my collection, shooters and hack and slashers that have that fast arcade gameplay, gamefeel and pacing.

Akia Katana
Death Smiles
Dodonpachi Resurection
Child of Eden & Rez HD
Ninja Gaiden Black (works 100% on 360)
Panzer Dragoon Orta (if you have a NA 360)
Ninja Gaiden 2
Space Marine (no cover, great mix of shooter and hack and slasher, don't buy used, has OL pass
Vanquish (is about as far away from a slow Gears cover shooter as u can get)
Binary Domain (Like gears but faster paced with great boss fights)
Bayonetta
Dead Space (good horror / shooter)

Slower Hack and slashers / RPGs

Dark Souls (2 versions are out, 1 with dlc, 1 not.
Nier
Enslaved
Kingdoms of Amalur (only if you want to play a SP game that feels like a MMO lots of content)

Others with enjoyable stories
Prey
The Darkness
Cronicles of Riddick (2 games in 1)
Dust: An elysian tail
Beyond Good & Evil, From Dust, Outanders XBLA boxed set.
Sina Mora (only for casual play)

Wii
Muramasa the Demonblade
Resident Evil 4 (or on xbla)
Desident Evil 1 remake

Maybe
Rayman Origins
Zoe HD 360
MetalGear Solid collection

Blood and Guns 2: The Bloodening
Blood and Guns HD collectors edition
Bloody Guns
Guns that Shoot Blood

Frankly, The Bloodening has a brilliant Cooking-Mama style minigame, but the rest are good chaotic run-aroundy tactical Real Time Strategy games with elements of Role-Playing Games and Second Person Shooters.

BlueberryMUNCH:

Also, the last sentence in the first paragraph you wrote just...cuts off xD.

PLEASE GET DARK SOULS.

Fixed, and I'll consider getting Dark Souls since I heard great things about it.