Am I just at fault?

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You are all at fault, but most of all you are all stupid.
- the lady for playing on multiple sides knowing full well what kind of shitstorm this will brew
- you OP for aiding her in this endeavour
- the boyfriend for mistreating her, but more so not admitting the clock is way past happy fun times

And you people are coworkers... this shit will go sky high very soon and the only thing you need to know at this point is what distance to stand at.

It doesn't matter who's more wrong.

At the end of the day you're responsible for your actions. If your concerned about doing the right thing you'll tell this girl to make her choice or miss out.
This isn't just to benefit the other bloke or your conscience either. If she thinks its okay to have multiples guys on the go, and is hesitant to leave the guy she's with to be with you, then she isn't going to be a very trustworthy or loyal partner is she?

You're just as much at fault as she is.

Don't get me wrong, I don't hold anything against you. Our baser instincts are fun to fulfill. But if we're going from a purely moral standpoint, you've got zero high ground here.

fletch_talon:
It doesn't matter who's more wrong.

At the end of the day you're responsible for your actions. If your concerned about doing the right thing you'll tell this girl to make her choice or miss out.
This isn't just to benefit the other bloke or your conscience either. If she thinks its okay to have multiples guys on the go, and is hesitant to leave the guy she's with to be with you, then she isn't going to be a very trustworthy or loyal partner is she?

I don't think the OP cares about how good a partner she is, he is wanting sex and she is happy to have it with him. The OP makes no mention of him wanting more than that. His question is about how right or wrong it is to sleep with another persons partner without their knowledge.

Like you said, he is responsible for his own actions, so he can't claim to not be at fault when he is sleeping with a co-worker who he knows is in a relationship already.

If you didn't know she had a boyfriend at first, then no. Now that you know, I'd say that your just as much in the fault as she it.

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